by David Kinnaman, Gabe Lyons

This book gave me new insight about faith and church. I’ve long felt that Christians must stop complaining about the general public’s supposed anti-Christian bias. as it is, in many cases, well-deserved. We believe we are compassionate and loving, yet those we seek to reach perceive us as judgmental, legalistic and intolerant. Rather than listen to those we have hurt, we often become shrill and disrespectful of those who disagree with us.

The authors demonstrate the distinct disconnect between our self perception and the perceptions of others, particularly young adults. The testimonials from young people who have left the church and/or the faith and been wounded by Christians are particularly moving.

If you are an active church member, or particularly a leader, this is a must-read.