Letting Go

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It’s so hard to let go. I thought I had mastered it after Elizabeth, 20, left for college, which left Sara Ann, 16, as our only child at home. I was her primary mode of transportation and it made for some valuable one-on-one time in the car that I came to treasure. Until August 1. [...]

Life With Teenagers: The Hills I’m Not Gonna Die On: Part Two

noise

In this post I began this discussion of the hill I refuse to die on. This is the rest of the list. Noise Teenagers are loud. As long as they are inside my house and not disturbing my neighbors, I don’t care how loud they are — I’m just glad they are safe at my [...]

Life with Teenagers: The Hills I’m Not Gonna Die On: Part One

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Life with teenagers requires some flexibility. No, as the parent you really don’t have to bend, but if you’re wise, you’ll figure out which things are deal breakers and which are not. Fighting with your teen over minor issues will ruin both your lives. Is that really what you want them to remember about their [...]

Strollers to Car Keys: Already?

girlsinpool

This photo was taken in the summer of 1994, when my girls were two and five-and-a-half. They are now 16 and 19. Time flies. About 19 years ago I read a magazine article that talked about how we often wish our children’s lives away. I can’t wait until the first smile, can’t wait until they [...]

Parents: A Wake-up Call

By now you have likely seen and/or heard the story: a group of teenage girls beat a former friend severely enough to cause unconsciousness, damage to her vision and hearing, not to mention what I’m sure were plenty of scrapes and bruises. Inexplicably, they videotaped the incident for the purpose of posting it on the [...]